Religion

1. Is there a dress code?
Because you’re a guest at the service, they usually won’t expect you to be dressed like them until you become a regular attendee. You don’t have to worry about dress codes the first time you go, once you go and see how it is, take a look at what everyone is wearing so if you like it you’ll know what to return in.

Typical appropriate attire is a jacket and tie for men. For women, a dress or skirt. Pantsuits, open toe shoes, and modest jewelry are also acceptable. No shorts. Skirts/dresses should not be more than half way up the thigh, and shirts should not show too much cleavage.

2. I'm gay. How do I find a place of worship that will accept me?
You can always call a place of worship and ask if they welcome gay or lesbian members. You can also check out these links for some GLBT-friendly churches around Washington.

http://www.gayseachurch.net
http://rslevinson.com/gaylesissues/gfg/blwashington.htm

3. Do I have to leave a donation when I attend a service?
If you have no money to leave a donation, any respectable place of worship should be happy that you’re attending. However, if you do have enough money, it is recommended that you leave a $5 (more or less) donation. It helps the church fund events, buy new books, and cover operating costs as well as their charitable outreach.

4. Once I find a place of worship, should I just stop by, or call them first?
Places of worship are typically happy and very welcoming to new visitors. You might want to call ahead and ask them if you can come to the next service, just so that they will be expecting you. That way, when you show up you won’t feel so nervous or out of place.